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Why Won’t Your Depression Go Away? (And What You Can Do About It)

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Updated on 10 February, 2025
Medically Reviewed by

Dr. Mark Allen

Why Won’t Your Depression Go Away? (And What You Can Do About It)

To understand why your depressive symptoms aren’t going away, it’s important first to recognize that major depression is a complex disorder influenced by various factors. Effective treatment requires identifying and addressing these factors for each individual.

Unfortunately, many healthcare providers rely on a one-size-fits-all approach, often prescribing antidepressant medications without thoroughly assessing the root cause of a patient’s depression. As a result, many patients don’t receive the care they need.

If you or a loved one have been struggling with depression, there are likely still treatment options available. This article highlights key insights to help you get the support you deserve.

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Understanding the Different Factors That May Contribute to Your Depression

For most people, many different aspects of their lives come together to cause depression. Here, we’ll break down the three main types of factors that contribute to depression:

  1. Predisposing factors: Factors that increase the risk of depression later in life
  2. Precipitating factors: Factors that can trigger depression
  3. Perpetuating factors: Factors that can maintain, aggravate, or prolong symptoms

1. Predisposing Factors

These factors don’t directly cause depression, but they can increase the risk of developing depression later in life.

Genetics

Researchers have identified a genetic component that may contribute to the risk of developing depression, meaning it tends to run in families. Some experts report that if a sibling, parent, or grandparent has depression, you may be two to three times more likely to develop it than those without a family history.

Certain Personality Traits

People with certain traits are at a higher risk of developing depression than others. Some of these traits include:

  • Perfectionism: Those with high standards and perfectionistic tendencies are more likely to become depressed.

  • High reactivity: Individuals who are more sensitive to negative emotions from stressful events are at greater risk.

  • Negative thinking: People who are anxious and pessimistic tend to ruminate on negative thoughts, which increases their likelihood of depression.

  • Low self-esteem: Low self-esteem has been linked to depression, though the relationship between the two is complex.

  • Social inhibition: Those who feel vulnerable in large groups and struggle to connect with others may feel isolated, increasing their risk of depression.

  • Impulsiveness or poor self-discipline: People who are impulsive or disorganized may be prone to depression.

  • Sensitivity to rejection: Those who perceive rejection or criticism from others are more likely to develop depression.

If you have any of these traits, it doesn’t mean you’ll develop depression. They’re just risk factors more common in those with depression, and the good news is they’re often learned behaviors that can be unlearned.

Gender Differences

Women are twice as likely as men to develop depression at some point in their lives. In the United States, the lifetime risk for depression is 17.1% for women, compared to just 9% for men.

There are many potential reasons for the greater risk of depression in women compared to men. Depression is more common during phases of women's reproductive life, such as puberty, postpartum, and menopause, pointing to hormonal differences as a contributor to the gender gap in depression rates.

While some types of depression are triggered by hormonal changes (e.g. postpartum depression), the vast majority of women experience similar hormonal changes without significant depression. Current theory suggests hormonal issues may contribute to certain types of depression and cause sleep disturbances, which can also play a role.

Gender differences in depression rates can also be explained by differences in exposure to other risk factors, such as certain negative life events. These events, which are linked to depression in both women and men, are more common in women and include experiences like sexual and physical abuse, poverty, appearance pressure, negative body image, and inequality/discrimination.

Childhood Trauma or Abuse

Research shows that experiencing traumatic or abusive events during childhood is strongly linked to depression in adulthood. These events include neglect, domestic violence, parental substance abuse, physical or sexual abuse, extreme poverty, rejection, and death of a parent.

Up to three-quarters of adults with depression have experienced significant childhood trauma. In addition, those who experienced multiple incidents are more likely to have more severe symptoms. Researchers believe early exposure to these adverse conditions can lead to more challenging life circumstances later on and lower the threshold for reacting to and coping with stress, increasing the risk of depression.

This link may also explain why children of depressed parents are more likely to experience depression themselves. These children inherit a genetic predisposition for depression and are also often raised in high-risk conditions, including marital conflict, instability, lack of affection, poor parenting, and limited adult support.

2. Precipitating Factors

Some of these factors are more likely to trigger depression in patients who already have risk factors, while others can trigger depression on their own, even in patients without any predisposing factors.

Stressful Life Events

Stressful life events are one of the most common triggers for depression, with approximately 70% of depressive episodes being triggered by such events. Some patients experience a single traumatic event severe enough to trigger depression, while others describe a gradual downward spiral involving a series of stressful events or chronic difficulties, eventually leading to their breaking point.

Some examples of stressful life events that trigger depression include:

  • Prolonged grief after the death of a family member or loved one
  • Divorce or break-up with a long-term partner
  • Partner’s infidelity
  • Being diagnosed with a terminal illness
  • Partner’s illness
  • Job loss or financial difficulties
  • Domestic abuse
  • Loneliness
  • Being directly affected by a natural disaster
  • Acts of violence, such as mass shootings or assault
  • Living in poverty
  • Losing a home
  • Being injured in an accident
  • Living through a pandemic
  • Systemic issues such as sexism, racism, misogyny, or homophobia

Any of these stressful life events or chronic difficulties can trigger the initial depressive episode, but they can also aggravate symptoms for patients already dealing with depression. In such cases, they can be described as both precipitating and perpetuating factors (more on this in the next section).

Medications

Some medications may trigger symptoms of depression; examples include:

  • Anticonvulsants to treat epileptic seizures
  • Barbiturates and benzodiazepines to treat anxiety disorders
  • Calcium-channel blockers for high blood pressure, congestive heart failure, or abnormal heart rhythms
  • Isotretinoin for severe acne
  • Certain birth control methods containing estrogens
  • Beta-blockers for heart problems, such as high blood pressure and angina
  • Opioids for pain relief
  • Statins to lower cholesterol
  • Corticosteroids for inflammation

If you suspect your medication is causing depression symptoms, it’s important to seek medical advice. Your provider will consider the benefits of the medication against any adverse effects and may suggest an alternative drug or adjustment in dosage.

Chronic Illness and Pain

Living with a chronic physical illness, such as cancer, cardiovascular disease, dementia, diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or post-concussion syndrome/TBI, is exhausting and can severely affect a patient’s life and emotional state. Not surprisingly, patients with these and other debilitating conditions are at higher risk of developing depression.

It’s estimated that up to 85% of these patients will experience depressive symptoms at some point, and they often face a poorer prognosis compared to those who have depression without chronic physical pain or illness.

Physical pain and disability may also lead to job loss, strained social connections, and prevent individuals from exercising or getting enough sleep, further increasing the risk of depression.

3. Perpetuating Factors

Perpetuating factors maintain, aggravate, or prolong the duration of symptoms in patients already experiencing depression. There is some overlap between precipitating and perpetuating factors.

For instance, in some patients, the initial trigger for depression may be the loss of a loved one, which is further exacerbated by social isolation and withdrawal. In other cases, patients who are already struggling with social interactions and depression may find that losing a loved one makes their symptoms significantly worse.

Drug and Alcohol Abuse

It’s not uncommon for patients with depression to drink excessively or use illegal drugs, such as cocaine, MDMA, or amphetamines, as a way to self-medicate and alleviate their symptoms.

While these substances may provide short-term euphoria and a sense of happiness, they are likely to worsen depressive symptoms in the long term and prolong the time patients deal with depression. Alcohol and drug use can also lower the efficacy of prescription antidepressant medications and contribute to an addictive cycle, where the patient needs increasingly higher doses to achieve the same effect.

The following are signs that patients may be self-medicating their depression with substances:

  • They use alcohol or substances to change how they feel about something
  • They’ve tried to stop but failed
  • They require increasing amounts to achieve the initial desired effect
  • They crave drugs or alcohol
  • Their substance use interferes with their professional and social life
  • They engage in risky behaviors, such as driving under the influence

Social Isolation

Patients with depression often isolate themselves and avoid social interactions, frequently coming up with excuses to avoid what they perceive as uncomfortable or difficult.

Signs of social isolation in these patients include:

  • Stopping social activities or events they used to enjoy
  • Spending a lot of time alone and with little to no contact with others
  • Having no one to ask for help or support
  • Rarely communicating with friends and family
  • Lacking meaningful and close connections with other people
  • Feeling lethargic, sad, or rejected

This behavior can create a downward spiral, reinforcing negative thoughts about oneself, others, and the world, which further exacerbates symptoms of depression. Social isolation often leads to less exercise, poor sleep, and an unhealthy diet. It may also contribute to alcohol and substance abuse and increase the risk of suicidal thoughts.

Sleeping Disturbances

Depression and sleep problems are closely linked. Among people with depression, about 60%–80% have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep. The relationship works both ways: people with insomnia have a tenfold higher risk of developing depression compared to those who manage to get a good night’s sleep.

For patients with depression, sleeping disturbances are a major perpetuating factor. Stressful life events, as described earlier, can lead to sleepless nights, which cause daytime fatigue and exacerbate depressive symptoms. Over time, this creates a vicious cycle of inactivity and disturbed sleep, affecting both physical and emotional health. Additionally, medications prescribed to treat depression can worsen insomnia, further aggravating symptoms.

Long-Term Symptoms

Chronic conditions such as stroke, diabetes, arthritis, kidney disease, HIV/AIDS, multiple sclerosis, and even depression itself cause long-term debilitating symptoms. These conditions can lead to significant life changes, limiting a patient's mobility and independence, making it overwhelming to navigate such ongoing challenges.

This reality can be hard to manage, often triggering or worsening depression. It's estimated that up to one-third of people with a serious medical condition have symptoms of depression. Furthermore, the combination of chronic illness and depression may lead patients to isolate themselves or turn to alcohol, which can further exacerbate their depression.

The Typical Way That Depression Is Assessed and Treated Often Doesn't Work

The most common ways patients with depression receive medical support are through primary care doctors or psychiatrists. Unfortunately, both types of doctors often:

  • Dedicate limited time to evaluating patients and identifying the specific factors contributing to their depression.

  • Jump directly to prescribing antidepressant medications without exploring alternative treatment options that may be better suited to the patient’s unique needs and situation.

Primary care doctors, who prescribe 90% of antidepressant medications in the U.S., lack the time, training, and resources to conduct thorough assessments for major depressive disorder. While some psychiatrists provide more specialized care, many focus solely on medication management through short, 15-minute appointments, failing to understand which treatment options best match the patient’s unique needs.

As we’ve written about previously, there are numerous issues with relying solely on antidepressant medications for treating depression. These include:

  1. It’s been shown that traditional antidepressant medications, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), only work for about one-third of patients. Even when prescribed new drugs after a first or second medication fails, data suggest that less than 2% of patients have success with a third or fourth medication.

  2. Traditional antidepressant medications involve a trial period of weeks or months before it can be determined whether or not they are working. If a medication doesn’t work, the patient must begin another trial with a different drug and go through the process all over again.

  3. Traditional antidepressant medications commonly cause unwanted side effects, such as headaches, digestive problems, emotional numbing, decreased libido, and brain fog. These side effects can significantly impact the patient’s quality of life and well-being, especially if patients have other health conditions.

  4. Studies show that 50%–75% of patients relapse after stopping their medication. If symptoms return, the common response is to put patients back on medication, leading many with recurrent depression to stay on antidepressant medications long-term.

To be clear, about one-third of patients do get relief from antidepressant medications. However, the current one-size-fits-all approach is failing the majority of people who suffer from moderate to severe depression.

In the next section, we’ll explain what you should be looking for to get better support.

How to Get the Right Support When Depression Symptoms Aren’t Going Away

Ideally, patients with prolonged or treatment-resistant depression (TRD) should work with a provider who specializes in treating clinical depression. It’s usually best when evaluation and treatment are orchestrated by a single doctor.

Good providers will be thorough and seek to deeply understand the patient and what may be contributing to their depression. They’ll use these insights to inform the treatment plan they prescribe, which may or may not include medication.

In our experience, psychologists are often the most comprehensive healthcare provider to assess various factors that may be contributing to a patient’s depression. While psychiatrists can treat patients with serious mental health conditions that require medication, including bipolar disorder and schizophrenia, psychologists are more likely to employ a variety of different approaches, including psychotherapy (i.e. talk therapy) to help patients understand their symptoms, the factors that contribute to their depression, and learn how to change or manage them.

In addition, psychologists are more likely to have knowledge of and/or offer alternative depression treatments that may be a good fit for certain patients.

The Best Types of Psychotherapy for Depression

Several well-tested types of psychotherapy have been developed specifically for treating depression. These include:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for depression: CBT teaches patients how to identify and evaluate problematic thoughts, feelings, and behaviors associated with their depression, and modify both the content and the way thoughts are processed. It provides various strategies to cope with symptoms, such as helping patients identify and re-engage in activities they have enjoyed in the past. The goal is to help patients develop healthier thinking patterns and behaviors and move toward their goals leading to improved mood, emotional regulation, and overall functioning.

  • Behavioral therapy (BT) for depression: In contrast to CBT, which focuses on both thoughts and behaviors, behavioral therapy focuses only on changing behaviors and environmental factors that contribute to a patient’s depression. Also known as “behavioral activation,” BT for depression encourages patients to participate in activities that are enjoyable and rewarding to combat the withdrawal and inactivity typical of depression.

  • Interpersonal therapy (IPT): IPT aims to improve the patient’s relationships with others (friends, family members, etc.) by using strategies to communicate emotions and needs. It also focuses on helping patients adapt to social role transitions. As relationships with others improve and patients adapt better to their social roles, the depressive symptoms can subside, and the patient can experience improved functioning in multiple areas of life.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Is the Most Researched Type of Psychotherapy for Depression and Produces the Best Long-Term Outcomes

Compared to other psychotherapies, CBT has far more scientific and empirical support for treating depression, including a greater number of randomized controlled trials. Most meta-analyses indicate that CBT outperforms other therapies, both in the short term and especially in the long term (e.g., 6 months to 1 year post-treatment). Once treatment ends, the beneficial effects of CBT are sustained, whereas other therapies and medications often lead to relapses of depression.

Overall, research shows that CBT is superior to other psychotherapies and medications for depression in both short- and long-term outcomes, with a notable advantage in the long term. The response rate to CBT across studies ranges from 61%–87%, with large effect sizes.

It’s important to note that while CBT can be fast-acting for some patients, it generally takes weeks or months to achieve full remission of depression. This is why faster-acting treatments, such as TMS (discussed next), are also beneficial.

Alternative Depression Treatments to Consider

Due to the high demand for evidence-based depression treatment alternatives, more options are becoming available for patients who haven’t found success with traditional antidepressant medications or prefer alternatives.

These treatments include electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) and ketamine, with transcranial magnetic stimulation therapy (TMS) being one of the leading alternatives.

We’ve written an in-depth article about TMS therapy for depression.

The article answers the following questions for patients:

  • What is TMS therapy, and how does it work?
  • What are the potential risks and side effects of TMS therapy?
  • How effective is TMS therapy for depression?
  • Who is a good fit for TMS therapy, and who should avoid it?
  • What are the costs of TMS, and what is insurance coverage like?
  • Where can you receive TMS therapy?

In contrast to antidepressant medications, TMS has milder and only brief side effects. Newer TMS protocols also provide a faster-acting solution, with many patients experiencing significant symptom reduction or complete relief after just one week of treatment.

The Safest and Most Effective Method of TMS Therapy for Depression

At our Utah-based clinic, Cognitive FX, we follow the newly FDA-approved SAINT protocol of TMS. Of all the types of TMS available, this is the most targeted, safe, and effective protocol for patients with treatment-resistant depression. Currently, less than ten clinics in the U.S. offer this treatment.

A comparison of remission rates for rTMS/iTBS, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), and SAINT-iTBS.
A comparison of remission rates for rTMS/iTBS, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), and SAINT-iTBS.

Before treatment starts, patients undergo a thorough medical assessment and are informed of all possible side effects that they may experience during treatment.

In contrast to the original form of TMS (rTMS), which takes four to six weeks to complete, the SAINT protocol is an accelerated form of TMS administered over just one week. Patients receive ten TMS sessions per day for five days, totaling 50 sessions.

To improve outcomes for our patients, we also include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) as a part of our treatment. When combined with the traditional method of TMS (rTMS), CBT improved response and remission rates by ~8% and ~19%, respectively.

Our TMS treatment is ideal for most patients with treatment-resistant depression. However, we don’t treat patients under the age of 16 or over the age of 65. Additionally, as a safety measure, we don’t treat patients who have a history of seizures or are currently at immediate risk of suicide and in need of crisis care.

If you're interested in receiving TMS therapy at Cognitive FX, click here to learn more.

Key Takeaways

  • Flawed depression assessment and treatment: Many healthcare providers use a one-size-fits-all approach to treating depression, often immediately prescribing antidepressant medications without thoroughly assessing the individual factors contributing to each patient’s condition. This approach frequently leads to inadequate care and persistent symptoms.

  • Limitations of antidepressant medications: Traditional antidepressants, such as SSRIs, are effective for only about one-third of patients, and finding the right medication often requires a lengthy trial-and-error process. Even when effective, there's a high relapse rate after medication discontinuation, leading many patients to remain on medication long-term.

  • Importance of specialized care: For patients with prolonged or treatment-resistant depression, working with a provider who thoroughly understands their unique needs and offers personalized care is crucial. Psychologists, in particular, may offer a broader range of therapies and alternative treatments beyond medication.

  • Best types of psychotherapy for depression: Several types of psychotherapies have been developed specifically for treating depression. Overall, research shows that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is the most effective in both short- and long-term outcomes, with a notable advantage in the long term.

  • TMS as an alternative treatment option: Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) is a leading alternative for patients who have not responded well to traditional antidepressants. TMS offers faster results with fewer side effects, especially with newer protocols like the SAINT protocol, which is more targeted and effective.

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